So you are arguing about time slowed in gravity wells to justify speculation about the passage of time where God exists while creating. Got it.
NoNukes has addressed the issue of order in the Genesis account already which has nothing to do with time relativity.
For example we have from Gen 1:2 that the spirit of God is moving upon the face of the waters.
Then in Gen 1:3 comes the famous "Let there be light."
That should be sufficient to throw a monkey wrench into your trying to make some sort of accord between science & the big bang with Genesis.
Water exists before the creation of light.
You're the one who bogarted the entire pitcher of Kool-Aid so you get to be the one to explain this mystery. I'm all ears. Perhaps another quote from a Rabbi?
(This problem also has absolutely nothing to do with your elaborate abuse of Quantum Mechanics either so please don't go there as I'm out of aspirin at the moment.)