Register | Sign In


Understanding through Discussion


EvC Forum active members: 64 (9164 total)
5 online now:
Newest Member: ChatGPT
Post Volume: Total: 916,867 Year: 4,124/9,624 Month: 995/974 Week: 322/286 Day: 43/40 Hour: 2/7


Thread  Details

Email This Thread
Newer Topic | Older Topic
  
Author Topic:   Born Again
Phat
Member
Posts: 18348
From: Denver,Colorado USA
Joined: 12-30-2003
Member Rating: 1.0


Message 61 of 388 (611801)
04-11-2011 4:18 AM
Reply to: Message 53 by mike the wiz
04-10-2011 8:16 PM


Topic Synopsis
Initially, way back in message 24 I asked jar what part that God,Jesus, and/or the Holy Spirit played in my decision to do more for the least of these (whom I felt no real desire to help.)
My problem, as I saw it, was that I didnt feel born again or even very Christian. I felt that my own problems at earning enough money to retire on were as pressing as any charge that I had to help the homeless. Because of the internal conflict as to how I felt, I expressed myself in this forum topic. And so we continue.
jar writes:
God did give you the power, and the great gift outlined in Genesis 2&3 where we gained the capability to know good from evil. Inspiration is irrelevant.
I had a dream a couple of nights ago, shortly after posting here and reading the early replies. Additionally, I have been stirred up by reading Francis Chans book, Crazy Love. (Yes, jar, I see that he is selling stuff) I imagine that Francis Chan is marketing a product. So be it. It made me feel guilty. Chan had some radical statements within his book.
Milton Frieman, on the other hand, had a sound argument that made myself and a hundred million other guilty capitalists feel a lot better about our basic path in life. The question arises, however. Is spirituality and daily economic and social reality compatable?
Ringo writes:
You're supposed to be less selfish and more loving.(...)That's why regeneration has to be perpetual. You fail one day but you succeed the next.
I agree. My sin is a sin of indifference. Chan seems to emphasize that one cannot be a lukewarm christian. Jars "charge" even seems to corroborate what Chan is saying, without even having to bring religious indoctrination into it.
MTW writes:
If I ask a lost person for advice - he will give me an answer according to the flesh. If I ask a spiritual person, born again, and having walked with God in experience and maturity for many years, He will teach me in the way everlasting.
I say a harsh thing to you phat - I ask a challenging question; when are you going to forget what others think - and ask the one Who can give you more than you could ever ask?
See Mike, I dont see concise evidence that there are two distinct sets of people...namely "Lost" and "Found".
I used to believe that this was so, but I have received very good advice from what some would consider "lost" people. This also gets us back to the source versus content discussion.
MTW writes:
Phat - I say this in a way of encouragement, but men can't solve your problems. Let's face it, listening to the philosophies of the naturalists makes you look even more at sea than ever before. That is because spiritually, you are still on milk. You can't ask a fleshly mind for a spiritual answer.
Mike, thank you very much for your concern. I do not believe that I am unable to hear Gods direction for my life. I do seem a bit anxious that He wont give me the inspiration or love for others that I seek. I do believe quite strongly that flesh and spirit are at odds with one another. Having an emotional catharsis from God is diametrically opposed to getting laid, for example. I can get ecstatic over a casino win and thank my lucky stars (or Jesus) for the moment, but we really cant expect God to reward a self proclaimed spiritual man with a carnal desire and attempt to "spiritualize" the episode, can we? Lets assume that the hundred million dollar powerball jackpot was a "spiritual gift" just waiting to be delivered to the right person. (keeping in mind that the love of money is the root of all evil! ) If a so-called righteous man prays for such a gift and has all of the right spiritual intentions as to the use for the money, is he any more likely to receive the gift than a crack addict, a New York Bank executive who is already loaded, or a politician in need of funding?
Sorry I got off on that track....
MTW writes:
No offense, but you will go in circles forever unless you get on your knees and pray out to God.
Actually, I have, Mike. He wont give me any answers. He is not angry at me for discussing this with mere humans, however. Percys Forum wont get smited anytime soon.
Hyroglyphx writes:
think after some honest introspection, you'll realize how miserable following God's unrealistic goals are making you.
I don't mean this to condescend you, I'm just expressing that I've been here before with that constant agony and intangible pang in the heart for not being able to measure up.
My earnest suggestion is to stop torturing yourself and let go.
I think that honest introspection is a good thing. What would I be letting go of? For me, as a believer, God exists, has never forced me to do anything, and can no more be let go of than letting go of oxygen. (unless one were suicidal, which I'm not.) I believe that God does not expect all true inspiration and rationale to be found exists only in the Holy Bible, however. And that itself sparks a controversial argument!
MTW writes:
My walk with God, so many times I wanted or expected God would judge me or get angry, and infact He responded with mercy.
I could accept the mercy. The guilt would go away. For some reason, however, the guilt is supposed to be there. I wont duck away from it so easily.
jar writes:
I also think the idea of "Let go" is just a cop out, a way to get out of doing what we are charged to do.
My main problem with this "charge" is that I am unsure what the exact instructions are. Milton Friedman does have some good points, after all. I received a clear epiphany from my dream the other day, however. My inability to care about others stems from my willful ignorance of myself. It could be one of the roots of my occasional depression.
MTW writes:
Phat says he doesn't "feel" urges to be generous. Well, being generous won't get him into heaven. Christ, our righteousness, is the one who saves us, and he IS generosity. For God IS LOVE.
I am not really worried about getting into Heaven. I just know I may be embarrassed or even ashamed once I get there. I may have been focusing on the wrong thing.
jar writes:
If you ask God, the only thing you should ask is "What should I do?"
I can agree with this. I sometimes feel, however, that what God tells me is even twisted by myself to conform to whats comfortable for me. Hopefully, this guilt will allow me to progress eventually rather than going in circles.
MikeTheWiz writes:
my advice to Phat is to only do as the New Testament says - all of it, not just parts, and to study it. That is good advice, not snake oil...
I agree totally, Mike. I need to read my Bible more. I am not afraid of being brainwashed by any man or philosophy. God has given me a sound mind. It is my heart that I am more worried about, though!

This message is a reply to:
 Message 53 by mike the wiz, posted 04-10-2011 8:16 PM mike the wiz has not replied

Hyroglyphx
Inactive Member


(1)
Message 62 of 388 (611803)
04-11-2011 8:35 AM
Reply to: Message 57 by mike the wiz
04-10-2011 8:29 PM


Re: Rejection Of The New Birth
As for my attitude, I am sure you think you do phat a service, but infact, I know from experience, as a fellow-Christian, what he is going through, as for many years I battled the legalism of havin to earn God's favour.
No you didn't, Mike. You used to be a whole lot more laid back, objective, submissive and humble in the past. You seem more legalistic to me now that you ever were in the past.
I give spiritual advice - you swear at me and get angry because you think I am trying to earn religious points.
I swear at you? Why? Because I used the word "shit?" It just a word, Mike. Please show me where in the bible that the word "shit" is a "bad word." These are concoctions of a timid and frightened society. It has nothing to do with God. God is simply evoked to give it some kind of authority.
I am not doing anything other than helping phat to see this from a biblical perspective, and yet as usual, because I am an uncompromising Christian, people jump to all manner of conclusions about me, with ad hominem comments, or atleast allusions, such as "browny points".
Just making an observation. You have to be out there actively trying to save people's souls. In fact, that was Jesus' very last commission to his flock. Therefore you have a vested interest in converting people.
True or not true?

"Reason obeys itself; and ignorance submits to whatever is dictated to it" -- Thomas Paine

This message is a reply to:
 Message 57 by mike the wiz, posted 04-10-2011 8:29 PM mike the wiz has not replied

Tram law
Member (Idle past 4732 days)
Posts: 283
From: Weed, California, USA
Joined: 08-15-2010


Message 63 of 388 (611815)
04-11-2011 10:44 AM


It means that your parents went to a cult meeting, and now when you die your mother gives birth to you again and you grow really fast to your true physically age.

Phat
Member
Posts: 18348
From: Denver,Colorado USA
Joined: 12-30-2003
Member Rating: 1.0


Message 64 of 388 (611956)
04-12-2011 12:30 PM
Reply to: Message 23 by Jon
04-09-2011 5:13 PM


Wanting To Repent
quote:
This attitude(my feeling) is entirely against the spirit of repentance; the notion that you prefer the current path and have no desire to change is in direct conflict with the act of repentance.
No matter how hard it is to repent, you first have to want to repent.
And what if one has problems wanting to repent? Do we simply wait until the attitude changes? Look, I have no problem giving to worthy causes. Heck, I'll even do it without the tax break...and cheerfully too!
I refuse, however, to help an alcoholic get a beer. Or a homeless man who has been caught stealing in my store. Maybe this is why I am so miserable at times, I dunno...seems as if I am getting taxed more, am becoming poorer myself, and yet am expected to help a class of people who already get free food from Uncle Sam.
Edited by Phat, : No reason given.

This message is a reply to:
 Message 23 by Jon, posted 04-09-2011 5:13 PM Jon has replied

Replies to this message:
 Message 66 by NoNukes, posted 04-12-2011 1:05 PM Phat has seen this message but not replied
 Message 68 by Jon, posted 04-12-2011 1:08 PM Phat has replied

Phat
Member
Posts: 18348
From: Denver,Colorado USA
Joined: 12-30-2003
Member Rating: 1.0


Message 65 of 388 (611957)
04-12-2011 12:30 PM
Reply to: Message 23 by Jon
04-09-2011 5:13 PM


Double Post
Edited by AdminPD, : No reason given.

This message is a reply to:
 Message 23 by Jon, posted 04-09-2011 5:13 PM Jon has not replied

NoNukes
Inactive Member


Message 66 of 388 (611969)
04-12-2011 1:05 PM
Reply to: Message 64 by Phat
04-12-2011 12:30 PM


Re: Wanting To Repent
I refuse, however, to help an alcoholic get a beer. Or a homeless man who has been caught stealing in my store.
You cannot help addicts by financing their habits. No one expects that of you.
But generally speaking, you are stuck in a rut until your attitude regarding repentance changes, and left alone that might never happen.

This message is a reply to:
 Message 64 by Phat, posted 04-12-2011 12:30 PM Phat has seen this message but not replied

Replies to this message:
 Message 67 by NoNukes, posted 04-12-2011 1:08 PM NoNukes has seen this message but not replied

NoNukes
Inactive Member


Message 67 of 388 (611970)
04-12-2011 1:08 PM
Reply to: Message 66 by NoNukes
04-12-2011 1:05 PM


Re: Wanting To Repent
void
Edited by NoNukes, : stupid duplicate

This message is a reply to:
 Message 66 by NoNukes, posted 04-12-2011 1:05 PM NoNukes has seen this message but not replied

Jon
Inactive Member


Message 68 of 388 (611971)
04-12-2011 1:08 PM
Reply to: Message 64 by Phat
04-12-2011 12:30 PM


Re: Wanting To Repent
And what if one has problems wanting to repent?
I don't think you'll find the answer to that question on the Internet.
I refuse, however, to help an alcoholic get a beer.
Why?
Or a homeless man who has been caught stealing in my store.
Why?

Love your enemies!

This message is a reply to:
 Message 64 by Phat, posted 04-12-2011 12:30 PM Phat has replied

Replies to this message:
 Message 69 by Phat, posted 04-12-2011 1:16 PM Jon has replied

Phat
Member
Posts: 18348
From: Denver,Colorado USA
Joined: 12-30-2003
Member Rating: 1.0


Message 69 of 388 (611974)
04-12-2011 1:16 PM
Reply to: Message 68 by Jon
04-12-2011 1:08 PM


Re: Wanting To Repent
My father was a homebuilder who worked hard his whole life and who was my role model. He once told me never to give a homeless man money because they may buy beer or liquor with it. Instead, Dad would offer to buy them a meal. Some took him up on it, others didn't.
Dad taught me practical generosity. Why contribute to a mans alcohol or drug addiction?
Matthew7:6 writes:
Do not give dogs what is sacred; do not throw your pearls to pigs. If you do, they may trample them under their feet, and then turn and tear you to pieces.
This goes for foreign nations as well. If the US simply helps a new dictator come to power in order to oust an old one, are we not casting pearls before swine?
Money doesn't come easy, and it should never go easy either. Think before you give.
Edited by Phat, : fixed quote

This message is a reply to:
 Message 68 by Jon, posted 04-12-2011 1:08 PM Jon has replied

Replies to this message:
 Message 70 by Jon, posted 04-12-2011 1:30 PM Phat has not replied
 Message 71 by ringo, posted 04-12-2011 2:27 PM Phat has seen this message but not replied
 Message 72 by NoNukes, posted 04-12-2011 3:48 PM Phat has seen this message but not replied

Jon
Inactive Member


Message 70 of 388 (611976)
04-12-2011 1:30 PM
Reply to: Message 69 by Phat
04-12-2011 1:16 PM


Re: Wanting To Repent
Instead, Dad would offer to buy them a meal.
When was the last time you did this?
If the US simply helps a new dictator come to power in order to oust an old one, are we not casting pearls before swine?
Nowhere does Jesus tell folk to overthrow dictators to put new ones in power.
Think before you give.
Was that the charge given?
Jon

Love your enemies!

This message is a reply to:
 Message 69 by Phat, posted 04-12-2011 1:16 PM Phat has not replied

ringo
Member (Idle past 440 days)
Posts: 20940
From: frozen wasteland
Joined: 03-23-2005


(1)
Message 71 of 388 (611981)
04-12-2011 2:27 PM
Reply to: Message 69 by Phat
04-12-2011 1:16 PM


Re: Wanting To Repent
Phat writes:
Why contribute to a mans alcohol or drug addiction?
Think of it as contributing to his self-esteem, allowing him the dignity of deciding for himself how to spend the money.
Ultimately, he's the one who has to decide whether to use drugs or not. By withholding money, all you're doing is motivating him to use more desperate means - e.g. crime - to get them.
When you give him money, you're also giving him responsibility.

If you have nothing to say, you could have done so much more concisely. -- Dr Adequate

This message is a reply to:
 Message 69 by Phat, posted 04-12-2011 1:16 PM Phat has seen this message but not replied

NoNukes
Inactive Member


Message 72 of 388 (611991)
04-12-2011 3:48 PM
Reply to: Message 69 by Phat
04-12-2011 1:16 PM


Re: Wanting To Repent
Phat writes:
Dad taught me practical generosity. Why contribute to a mans alcohol or drug addiction?
Is that practical? If you buy a man food, you are enabling him to spend whatever other money he can panhandle on his true passion. I'll admit that I'm a lighter touch when someone asks me for food rather than money, but I also know that most of the homeless people I encounter have drug and/or alcohol problems. Your dad was a generous man, but in a practical sense, giving away food rather than cash is just a little easier on the conscience.
Money doesn't come easy, and it should never go easy either.
That's your own personal philosophy, and not one I agree with. Yes, you should think before you give, but that shouldn't impede sharing.

This message is a reply to:
 Message 69 by Phat, posted 04-12-2011 1:16 PM Phat has seen this message but not replied

jaywill
Member (Idle past 1969 days)
Posts: 4519
From: VA USA
Joined: 12-05-2005


Message 73 of 388 (613928)
04-29-2011 7:40 AM
Reply to: Message 1 by Jon
02-18-2011 4:49 PM


Re: Origins of an Idea
It is to receive another life in addition to the life that you received when you were naturally born.
From the receiver's initial standpoint it is like coming to know a Person.
Regeneration is a rebirth which brings in a new life. It is absolutely a matter of life, not a matter of doing. Regeneration is simply to have life other than the life we already have. We have already received the human life from our parents; now we need to receive the divine life from God. Hence, regeneration means to have the divine life of God in addition to the human life which we already possess. Therefore, regeneration requires another birth in order to possess another life. To be regenerated, to be born again, does not mean to adjust or correct ourselves. It means to have the life of God, just as to be born of our parents means to have the life of our parents. To be regenerated is to be born of God (John 1:13), and to be born of God is to have the life of God, that is, the eternal life (3:15-16). (Witness Lee, LS of John, 98)
quoted from below:
Witness Lee & Watchman Nee teach regeneration
Edited by jaywill, : No reason given.
Edited by jaywill, : No reason given.

This message is a reply to:
 Message 1 by Jon, posted 02-18-2011 4:49 PM Jon has not replied

Replies to this message:
 Message 74 by ringo, posted 04-29-2011 9:23 AM jaywill has replied

ringo
Member (Idle past 440 days)
Posts: 20940
From: frozen wasteland
Joined: 03-23-2005


Message 74 of 388 (613929)
04-29-2011 9:23 AM
Reply to: Message 73 by jaywill
04-29-2011 7:40 AM


Re: Origins of an Idea
Why did Jesus ask Nicodemus, "Art thou a master of Israel, and knowest not these things?" (John 3:10) if He wasn't talking about the Jewish idea of rebirth/renewal/regeneration?

If you have nothing to say, you could have done so much more concisely. -- Dr Adequate

This message is a reply to:
 Message 73 by jaywill, posted 04-29-2011 7:40 AM jaywill has replied

Replies to this message:
 Message 75 by jaywill, posted 04-30-2011 12:52 AM ringo has replied

jaywill
Member (Idle past 1969 days)
Posts: 4519
From: VA USA
Joined: 12-05-2005


Message 75 of 388 (613999)
04-30-2011 12:52 AM
Reply to: Message 74 by ringo
04-29-2011 9:23 AM


Re: Origins of an Idea
Why did Jesus ask Nicodemus, "Art thou a master of Israel, and knowest not these things?" (John 3:10) if He wasn't talking about the Jewish idea of rebirth/renewal/regeneration?
I don't know for certain.
My opinion is that Jesus was saying that the real teachers of Israel spoke according to God's divine revelation.
"Jesus answered and said to him, You are a teacher of Israel, and you do not know these things.
Truly, truly, I say to you, We speak that which we know and testify of that which we have seen, and yet you do not receive our testimomy." (v.10,11)
This strikes me as Jesus saying the He and John the Baptist and the prophets are the genuine teachers of Israel. They are speak according to the revelation of God. The genuine teacher of Israel has something learned not by rot, but by direct revelation from God.
Jesus was gently chiding his superficial religious position and exposing his need to receive revelation from God in order to be among the true teachers of Israel.
Edited by jaywill, : No reason given.

This message is a reply to:
 Message 74 by ringo, posted 04-29-2011 9:23 AM ringo has replied

Replies to this message:
 Message 76 by ringo, posted 04-30-2011 1:08 AM jaywill has replied

Newer Topic | Older Topic
Jump to:


Copyright 2001-2023 by EvC Forum, All Rights Reserved

™ Version 4.2
Innovative software from Qwixotic © 2024