Hi LinearAq, sorry for the delay in responding.
I have previously avoided discussing issues because mainly they are 'principles' and in principle I actually agree with you. I am totally against intolerance, racism, gay bashing, violence, exploitation, manipulation, oppression, greed, apathy and the list goes on but very, very few humans see themselves this way.
I'm full of principles and, through personal experience, I have good reason to be. However, I understand evreyone else has good reason also. Each of us has good reason for our principles through each individual personal life experience. This is where we are all equal. Could it be a case of, 'there but for the grace of god go I'?
We cannot change people. It is arrogant to try to do so. You can only change yourself. I am simply advocating that in order for us to influence a united, harmonious human race, then we have to understand each other, as opposed to vehemently standing by principles.
In the case of the 'bigots', aren't these people mothers, fathers, doctors, lawyers, candle stick makers and all quoting from the bible as you are? Their principles also get in the way of humanity, as does the majority, whatever those principles may be. It is not each other we should be challenging but ourselves.
An example from personal experience is that at the moment, I am struggling with the biggest principle of my life. I am challenging my principle that I will not tolerate others' false opinions of me. I've fought all my life for this principle. No-one knows me as I know me and I am not who others think I am. I have had to walk away from everyone I have ever loved and stand alone. How's that for a powerful principle?
Principles are fine but you have to be prepared to live by them too. It isn't always easy. We could try using the issues to see who we are instead of cultivating them for weapons disguised as principles. We are all guilty of mis-understanding and intolerance of others' behaviour, but the change begins with seeing this in ourselves.
The whole truth will out-shadow any principle.