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Hangdawg13
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Message 125 of 323 (113473)
06-08-2004 12:29 AM
Reply to: Message 124 by Abshalom
06-07-2004 4:33 PM


Re: Other Than Leviticus
The Bible can be read by anyone and interpreted by anyone to justify many things. Only one who is filled with the Holy Spirit and has extensive knowledge of ancient greek and hebrew can be 100% sure of what the passages says with all its technicalities (this is the purpose of a pastor/teacher). Its not surprising that people can take God's Word and twist it to fit their beliefs. Satan did.

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Hangdawg13
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Message 178 of 323 (114291)
06-10-2004 11:40 PM
Reply to: Message 177 by Sleeping Dragon
06-10-2004 1:22 PM


I haven't been following this hot argument much, but I'll stick my two cents in.
I work as a lifeguard and see many scantly clad beautiful girls on a daily basis. The desire or urge to pursue a relationship leading to sex with a hot chick is a very strong part of my genetic make-up and upbringing. This desire in itself is not sinful. If I let that desire or urge turn into actually "wishing" I could have sex with them or "fantasizing" about it then it is lust and very wrong.
The homosexual desire, I will assume, is a combination of genetics and upbringing. If I had homosexual tendencies, the desire or urge to pursue a relationship leading to sex with another man for me would be just as much a test to my strength of will as my heterosexual urges. If I were to let my homosexual desires get out of control to the point where I start acting on them to either pursue such a relationship or "fantasize" about such a relationship, that would also be wrong.

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Hangdawg13
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Message 180 of 323 (114311)
06-11-2004 12:25 AM
Reply to: Message 179 by crashfrog
06-10-2004 11:52 PM


I am not married and could possibly never get married. For me to ignore those desires my whole life would be difficult, but do-able.
The reasons I reject homosexuality as a valid lifestyle.
1) God created man for woman and woman for man both in body and soul.
2) Authority is a necessary part of life even in a relationship between two people.
3) Marriage is a covenant before God to last a lifetime.
4) God said it was wrong (don't start with the Bible passage debate again)
'nuff said.

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Hangdawg13
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Message 185 of 323 (114579)
06-11-2004 11:28 PM
Reply to: Message 182 by crashfrog
06-11-2004 12:39 AM


You don't have to live it, that's fine.
But what about everybody who doesn't believe in your God? Why are they supposed to play by your religion's rules?
After all, nobody expects you to stop eating hamburgers just because the Hindus believe its wrong.
In this nation, I have a right to vote for the candidate or the law according to whatever the heck I think is best. I desire that this nation function according to God's principles because I believe this is the only way it will last and prosper. If enough people in a state desire that that state function according to God's principles, so be it. Those who disagree can either deal or get out.
I like hamburgers. That is one reason out of many I do not live in India. If I get married just as the majority of America decides and votes that Homosexuality is the only valid lifestyle, I will simply leave.

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Hangdawg13
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Message 186 of 323 (114580)
06-11-2004 11:29 PM
Reply to: Message 183 by Dan Carroll
06-11-2004 10:10 AM


Jesus said that to lust for a woman is the same as commiting adultery in your heart.
Besides the fact that I have become arrogant and am no longer viewing her honorably as a child of God, but an object for my sexual gratification.
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Hangdawg13
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Message 187 of 323 (114582)
06-11-2004 11:33 PM
Reply to: Message 184 by Sleeping Dragon
06-11-2004 11:35 AM


Of course homosexuals can love one another. I am not challenging that notion. I do believe that any sexual activity outside of marriage (between one man and one woman) is related to lust.

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Hangdawg13
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Message 189 of 323 (114585)
06-11-2004 11:41 PM
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06-11-2004 11:37 PM


see previous post

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Hangdawg13
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Message 202 of 323 (114859)
06-13-2004 4:42 PM
Reply to: Message 197 by Rrhain
06-12-2004 8:30 PM


You will understand when many of us think you're a danger to a free society.
A free society does not come without laws. It is my desire and the desire of many that the laws of this nation stay aligned with God's moral law (Laws of Divine Establishment: see thread on Satan). A change in the nature of marriage, a fundamental societal institution, will inevitably result in a change in the entire society. As long as I am a voting citizen in this society, I am alowed my beliefs and my vote as to what is immoral and what should be lawful and what should not be.
Why are you incapable of extending that respect to others who aren't straight?
When have I disrespected a gay person? If I meet a gay person on the street, I will treat them with respect as I treat anyone else. But I am a part of this society and have a voice as to how it should function.

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Hangdawg13
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Message 205 of 323 (114920)
06-13-2004 10:06 PM
Reply to: Message 203 by jar
06-13-2004 5:36 PM


You are descriminating against gay people.
I have asked several times, without getting an answer, this simple question
When you get married, who does the marriage license come from?
If you believe like I do that marriage between gay people is simply illegitimate and therefore a non-marriage, then discrimination is a non-issue.
The license comes from the government. The marriage covenant comes from God. In fact the Government that gives the licenses was set in place by God for God.

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Hangdawg13
Member (Idle past 782 days)
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From: Texas
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Message 211 of 323 (114951)
06-14-2004 12:52 AM
Reply to: Message 210 by Sleeping Dragon
06-14-2004 12:15 AM


To butt in here:
I believe the attraction in itself is not a sin, but a temptation to sin.
I would guess that the homosexual attraction is a combination of many factors. I know that there are thousands of homosexuals who became het after becoming a Christian and being epistemologically rehabilitated. I think these people have started a website with testimonials.
Edited to add: by the way SleepingDragon, I think you ought to be commended for being the most mannerly and least emotional of any member on this site.
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Hangdawg13
Member (Idle past 782 days)
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From: Texas
Joined: 05-30-2004


Message 228 of 323 (115226)
06-14-2004 11:51 PM
Reply to: Message 226 by Rrhain
06-14-2004 10:08 PM


Re: scope
Does anyone else find that this just strikes them as lunacy?
We have been reduced to debating the physical details of anal sex to determine whether homosexuality is moral or immoral in God's eyes.
Sigh... whatever.

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Hangdawg13
Member (Idle past 782 days)
Posts: 1189
From: Texas
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Message 229 of 323 (115228)
06-15-2004 12:02 AM
Reply to: Message 214 by Rrhain
06-14-2004 2:37 AM


Incorrect.
There aren't any gay people who have turned straight.
Not one.
...when you actually sit them down and talk to them, ask them if they still feel attraction to people of the same sex, you find that those feelings haven't gone away...
I assume you've sat down and talked to all of them?
Sure, I know people who know people that have ex-homo Christian friends and one or two has told me that their friends still have struggles from time to time. I wouldn't doubt it. No one said its easy to do the right thing.
BTW, I don't know what ya'll thought I meant by epistemological rehabilitation. I simply meant studying God's Word, learning and applying Bible doctrine, and developing a closer relationship with God.

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